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Help Him Share His Feelings: An Invitation to Self-Reflection and Healing

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Derrick Javan Hoard LMFT Psychotherapy and Coaching

Why Your Partner Won't Open Up!

Are you feeling stuck in your relationship, wondering why your partner doesn't open up about his feelings? You're not alone. Many women unknowingly contribute to an environment where their male partners don't feel safe expressing themselves. This can be a form of emotional abuse, even when unintentional. And often, this pattern can be difficult to break.

Derrick Has Some Answers.

Welcome to Derrick's SItuational Consulting: A place for women to gain insights, learn to recognize their unconscious behaviors and their impact, and step into a nurturing, open, and communicative relationship.


With a unique expertise in dealing with conflict dynamics in couples and a deep understanding of the unique issues faced by gaming communities, Derrick offers effective strategies tailored to your individual situation. Our sessions aim to help you uncover and understand the invisible patterns that might be causing emotional distress in your relationship.

Adjusting to a New Normal Can Be Difficult

If you've come from an abusive relationship and find yourself navigating a different terrain with a more sensitive partner, Derrick's here to help. It's not unusual to struggle with newfound power dynamics in a relationship, and sometimes, it's easy to unintentionally cross the line.

We can help you:

  1. Recognize and understand the 'pursuing and withdrawing' dynamic in your relationship.
  2. Develop empathy and patience for a partner who needs space during conflicts.
  3. Discover healthier ways to express dissatisfaction or frustration without causing harm.
  4. Rebuild trust with your partner, encouraging open, honest communication.
  5. Create a safe emotional space for your partner to share his feelings.

You Can Repair This Situation!

We believe everyone has the potential to grow and change. Our approach to coaching is grounded in respect, understanding, and a genuine desire to help. So, if you're ready to explore these complex dynamics and co-create healthier patterns in your relationship, let's start this journey together.

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Book your session now and help your partner feel safe to share his feelings. Together, we can build healthier, more fulfilling relationships.

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